Why childrens already know and understand about sex?
Who are fault in this condition? Parents, education in the school, or factors
of social environment? Or surely
childrens are hyperactive so what shouldn’t they know and understand
they can know before the time. Sex education in formal sector, I think it’s so
necessary. Actually, at elementary school until senior high school we have
studied what is sex and reproduction organs in biology science.
So far, many children grow up without the provision
of sexual education.Parents still much to let the kids know the sex in his own
way. One reason is the many misconceptions about sexual education . Sexual education should
be part of a child's education at school and at home and start early. The
concept is more oriented anatomical elements, functions, values, personality
and attitude with respect to the ownership of the reproductive organs
respectively. Also, to prepare teens to be able to take the role of gender and
reproductive organs are mature adults.
Thus, sex education is actually more on the
educational formation of personality in relation to the ownership of the
reproductive organs. For that, sexual education is supported by elements of
ethics education, psychology, sociology, religion, and manners equip each
person to present themselves to act in accordance with the type of reproductive
organs.Free sex or child pornography addiction is adversely affected by the
failure of sex education. Sex education in childrens don’t mean that parents
teach how sexual intercourse is good, but what about the kids more aware of and
respect the reproductive organs so it’s
not used arbitrarily. When
childrens enter puberty began to
explain about wet dreams in men and menstruation in women greater detail. Introduced
also that in that age, in women there is when the fertilized egg cell sperm so
fertilization can occur and can happen child. This understanding should be done
with biology approach.
So, don’t just simply can and
can’t have sex, but also
why they can not do it. Because simply can and can’t just be made a
curious child to find out for yourself.It may be that what children can
actually wrongthing.
It should be emphasized to children that sex should only be done when the ripe age and already married, where before marriage must do the first inspection. Because if done carelessly can lead to sexually transmitted infections, certain other diseases, can be pregnant and not necessarily healthy children born because his mother was too small.
It should be emphasized to children that sex should only be done when the ripe age and already married, where before marriage must do the first inspection. Because if done carelessly can lead to sexually transmitted infections, certain other diseases, can be pregnant and not necessarily healthy children born because his mother was too small.
At least, there
are three main requirements that must be met before start giving sex education
sufficient knowledge. Parents need to stock enough knowledge about sexuality. There
are parents who do not even understand the difference between sex and sexuality. Sex is just a
biological difference between men and women.
While
sexuality is broader than that, inter alia include genital hygiene, interest in
the opposite sex, the incidence
of lust, and sexual orientation.
1.
Communication
Skills
Parents need to have
communication skills, involving speech and body language. Talk with a sweet
tone on the child , not patronizing or scare. In addition can be relaxed. Sex education
can fail miserably if the parents feel embarrassed. Free the mind and fully
aware that sex is not something sordid or sin. Sex is something that is normal,
because through sex human survival was maintained. Talking about sexuality is
not just about the intercourse of men and women, but can also be about health
and emotional development.
2. Openness
2. Openness
If the child asks about
something, don’t
need to cover up. Instead he find out for himself and even get lost, give an
appropriate answer portion and age. The answer is then followed by a discussion
about whether oral sex was safe and what are the consequences if done by
teenagers.
